In every man’s life, there comes a time when walking around the house in white crew socks just won’t cut it anymore. Your feet get cold, they ache from exposure to the hard floorboards, and it seems your socks are getting ruined daily.

What’s the solution? It's easier than you think – wear a comfortable pair of quality house slippers for men.

The house slippers you should choose depends a lot on your lifestyle – so, it’s important to know the differences between them. Some slippers can cope with a bit of wear and tear while others must remain dry and indoors at all times.

In today's article, I’m going to break it down for you so that you can know which house slippers are best for you.

Let's go.

Contents

1. What Are House Slippers?
2. House Slippers History
3. The Traditional Closed Back Slipper
4. The Mule Slipper
5. The Moccasin
6. The Albert Slipper

What Are House Slippers?

Put simply, a house slipper is a slip-on style of footwear that typically features a thin sole and soft construction.

As opposed to a standard sneaker, house slippers are traditionally meant to be worn indoors and do not have soles designed for traction. However, some hybrid options can be worn outdoors – a topic we will discuss later.

It’s now time for us to dive deeper and break down the numerous different styles of house slippers for men.

House Slippers History

In Europe, the house slipper dates back to the 16th century. Men of great wealth and power used slippers made of luxurious silks, velvets, carved wood and leathers to demonstrate their superiority and great fortunes.

However, house slippers date back even further than this in Asian culture. Historians estimate that the house slipper made its first appearance in China around 4700BCE.

In many Asian countries, there is an age-old practice of taking off outside shoes before entering the home. House slippers played a major role in this tradition as the indoor alternative for outdoor footwear. They came to represent the transition between the inside and outside worlds.

Fast forward a few thousand years, and the ancient Romans were also seen to be wearing slippers in the home. In fact, archeologists have uncovered many Roman skeletons wearing slippers – a sign of wealth and power even in death.

The Traditional Closed-Back House Slipper

Across the world, the closed-back slipper is one of the most popular styles found in men’s closets. Their simple yet versatile design gives them a wide range of uses and proves that a slipper can be more than just a means of warming your feet.

Commonly – this slipper style features a thick rubber sole that is suitable for wearing both indoors and out. Closed-back house slippers are often made of wool or cotton to provide comfort, warmth, and a classic cozy aesthetic.

Ultimately, the traditional closed-back is the perfect style if you’re looking for a versatile pair of house slippers that have the potential to be used lightly outdoors – for example, when taking out the trash.

The Mule House Slipper

The mule-style house slipper is one of the most minimalistic designs on the market. Typically, they feature the comfort and functionality of a traditional slipper – minus the enclosed heel at the back.

Mule house slippers are the fastest to slip on but lack the hold of a fully enclosed design. In short – consider these house slippers as indoor footwear and nothing more. 

This design can be made from many different materials, including wool, cotton, or even leather. There really is no limit to the fabric design of this indoor footwear.

Ultimately, the mule is the perfect option for men who want an indoor-only house slipper. They provide comfort, function, and varying levels of warmth depending on the fabric you opt for when purchasing.

The Moccasin

Inspired and named after the slip-on shoes worn by many Native American people, the Moccasin has solidified itself as one of the best house slippers for men due to its versatility. A stitch connects the midsole and the upper of the slipper, which gives them a weather-resistant, sturdy design.

In addition, a leather or sheepskin design further increases durability and provides this house slipper with a more shoe-like appearance. This style is the most suited to outdoor use and could be used when taking the dog out for a short walk or collecting your mail from your mailbox.

The Moccasin style also features different levels of warmth ranging from thin and soft to thick and plush.

The Albert House Slipper

Okay, gents – this is where house slippers for men get a bit more classy.

The elegant design of the Albert slipper dates back to the 1800s. It was introduced as a practical indoor shoe that men could also wear outside. Named after Prince Albert himself, these slippers were designed to protect the expensive floors of stately homes from the dirt and grime of the outside world.

As the most traditional house slipper on our list, it’s common for them to be made of velvet with a quilted lining. They typically have a thinner yet sturdy leather sole and can be used indoors and outdoors. However – these are not designed to replace your loafers.

I know what you’re thinking – you’ve seen this style before, right? It’s no surprise – the Albert slipper has a longstanding history in pop culture and Hollywood, having been worn by the likes of James Bond and Hugh Hefner.

There you have it, gents. Everything you need to know about the best quality slippers for men: my advice would be to think about your needs and lifestyle and go for what feels right.

Now that you’ve mastered house slippers for men, click here to read about the 10 Shoes Every Man Should Own.

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Finding the perfect sexy men's colognes for you can be tough.

To make the correct choice – you need to know the science of scent, which olfactory notes best suit you and your personality, and what sets a fragrance king apart from a fragrance fool.

With all of that confusing information out there – where do you even start?

Gentlemen – today is your lucky day. Over many years, I've been sampling tons of great fragrances, and I've had the opportunity to sort through and separate the damn fine from the dreadful. In short – I've put in the hard work for you.

The research is done and the results are in. It's about time that we break down 2022's top sexy men's colognes and work out which ones you should try for yourself.

Here we go.

A Brief Introduction To Fragrances

Before diving into the world of men's fragrance – we first need to establish a basic understanding of how scents are made up.

Don't worry, guys – this isn't chemistry 101. We won't go too deep into this – after all, whole books and years of studies have gone into the art of fragrance creation. All we need is to know are the foundations of olfactory science and how this influences what cologne we should buy for ourselves.

Fragrances are divided into three scent levels (or “notes”):

• Top Notes are what smell you first. These comprise lighter scents (mostly) in the floral and fruity category. Top notes come and go quickly – usually lasting about 15 minutes on the skin.
• Medium/Heart Notes form the core of the fragrance. This “second wave” starts to linger as the top notes dissipate, sticking around for an additional 2-4 hours on the skin.
• Base Notes consist of the heavier, denser scent molecules. This is where you'll find the rougher, more “masculine” notes like oakmoss, vetiver, and musk. You can expect base notes to last anywhere between 4-8 hours on the skin.

For the sake of this article – that's all you need to know. Of course, there is always more to learn. If you want to become even more informed on the science behind your favorite colognes, check out my guide to buying men's fragrances online.

Now that's out of the way, let's get down to business. I present to you my carefully curated list of the top 20 sexy men's colognes currently on the market today.

1. Gentleman Eau De Parfum – Givenchy

First on our list is a deep, woody fragrance by Givenchy. Throughout this fragrance's life on your skin, you'll pick up on the scents of spice and amber mixed in with some fresher notes and tones of vanilla.

In short, gents – these rich notes mean that this fragrance is suited to a man that wants warmer tones.

Top Notes: Black Pepper, Lavender, Bergamot

Heart Notes: Orris Cloves Cinnamon

Base Notes: Black Vanilla Husk, Tolu Balsam, Tonka Bean, Patchouli, Benzoin

2. The One For Men – Dolce and Gabbana

Dolce & Gabbana's classic fragrance should be a part of any man's fragrance collection. The One For Men has been enticing women's sense of smell since 2008 and is still as popular today as it was upon release.

Why? Simple – this fragrance was specifically formulated by Stefano Gabbana to be timeless and classic:

“A classic men's fragrance that would last for years and be the type of scent that women adore.” – Stefano Gabbana

A challenge I'd say he succeeded in – given The One For Men's popularity over the last 14 years.

Dolce & Gabbana also released a stronger Eau De Parfum version of this great fragrance. Its increased strength allows it to fill a room without becoming overpowering and unpleasant, and the strong base notes remain on the skin for even longer after application.

Top Notes: Grapefruit, Corriander, Basil

Heart Notes: Ginger, Cardamom, Orange Blossom

Base Notes: Amber, Tobacco, Cedar

3. Eros – Versace

Versace is a brand grounded in Greek mythology. Heck, their logo is a depiction of Medusa!

Eros, the god of love, is portrayed here. It establishes a man who is not only wealthy but confident and cultured. This fragrance brings to mind the Ancient Greek Isles and the decadent excesses often associated with them.

• Top Notes: Mint, apple, lemon.
• Heart Notes: Tonka Bean, geranium, ambroxan.
• Base Notes: Cedar, vetiver, oakmoss.

4. Luna Rossa Black – Prada

Luna Rossa was created to compliment the achievements of the Prada Luna Rossa sailing team – a collection of Italian sailboat racers who competed in the 2000 America's cup under Prada's sponsorship.

It is a simple yet effective fragrance. With only six notes – this scent doesn't present the same complexity as other fragrances on this list. However, sometimes a cleaner scent with more defined notes is better. Remember the old saying, gents – sometimes less is more.

Top Notes: Bergamot

Heart Notes: Angelica, Patchouli

Base Notes: Amber, Coumarin, Musk

5. Sauvage Eau De Parfum – Dior

I'll get straight to the point with this one – Dior Sauvage is a really sexy men's cologne. However – the scent itself isn't hyper-masculine. Sauvage is sensual – giving off an impression of class and sophistication while also portraying a sort of sensuality you don't often find in men's fragrances.

This bad boy has one of the greatest defining features of a sexy men's cologne – when a woman walks past a man wearing this scent, she can straight away tell ‘that guy's wearing Dior Sauvage!'

The 2018 Eau De Parfum formula increases the intensity of these scent triggers – with the addition of different oriental notes to the original Eau De Toilette formula.

Top Notes: Bergamot

Heart Notes: Sichuan Pepper, Lavender, Star Anise, Nutmeg

Base Notes: Ambroxan, Vanilla

6. Y Eau De Parfum – Yves Saint Laurent

Y Eau De Parfum is described as an aromatic fougere fragrance for men. In short, gents – this fragrance is heavily inspired by nature. Fougere is french for ‘fern' – which should give you an idea of the clean, natural aromas associated with this scent classification.

However, that isn't to say that this fragrance might come across as feminine. In fact, those who formulated this scent describe it as:

“A seductive fragrance interpretation of Yves Saint Laurent's iconic white T-shirt and black jacket.”.

Top notes: Bergamot, Ginger, Apple

Heart Notes: Sage, Geranium, Juniper Berries

Base Notes: Vetiver, Cedar, Tonka, Amber Woods, Olibanum

7. Black Phantom – Kilian

Black Phantom is one of the more unique fragrances on my list. For one thing – this scent can be considered a unisex fragrance in that both men and women can wear it and pull it off.

That isn't to say that you should avoid this fragrance – with notes such as coffee and rum contained within it, this scent is certainly masculine in many ways. However, there is also a sweetness within it that edges away from the classicly masculine scents of the past and towards the more sensual colognes of the 21st century.

Top notes: Heliotrope, Sugar Cane, Almond

Heart Notes: Coffee, Caramel

Base Notes: Rum, Dark Chocolate, Sandalwood

8. Jet Black – Michael Malul

Very similar to the previous fragrances on this list – Jet Black features many of the same masculine fragrance notes we come to expect from a sexy men's cologne.

With a well-balanced mixture of notes such as Bergamot and Leather – this cologne is another classic ‘man' scent with a modern twist. Lavender and Mimosa help break through the deep base notes of this fragrance and provide a floral edge that helps to give Jet Black depth and complexity.

The scents that break through the rest in this fragrance are floral, citrus, and spicy.

Top notes: Bergamot, Lavender

Heart Notes: Mimosa, Cinnamon, Leather

Base Notes: Tabacco, Guaiac Wood, Opoponax, Oakmoss

9. Exalt Nuit – Navitus

Exalt Nuit translates to mean Exalted Night. In short – high status, mysterious and sexy. As one of the newest fragrances on our list, Exalt Nuit by Navitus Parfums isn't one many men will have heard of before. This unisex fragrance boasts a complex mixture of many different notes that help contribute to a unique and interesting scent profile.

With the inclusion of notes such as Nutmeg and Madagascan Pepper, this isn't a scent that will blend into the backdrop of the numerous sexy men's colognes on the market. This one stands out as a fragrance that meets the needs of a classic men's cologne while offering something a little bit extra in the way of spices and floral tones.

Top notes: Cacao, Bergamot, Olibanum, Nutmeg

Heart Notes: Jasmine, Anise, Benzoin, Madagascan Pepper, Labdanum

Base Notes: Tabacco, Cedar, Haitian Vetiver

10. Herod – Perfums De Marly

Parfums De Marly describe this fragrance as:

“The epitome of old-world sophistication.”

Which I would say is a pretty accurate description of what Herod brings to the table. This scent opens with spicy notes of cinnamon and pepper to then evolve slowly through warmer notes until the final woody base notes can be appreciated.

This is a very complex scent, gents. It gives off an air of sophistication while also presenting as both exotic and sensual. It's technically a unisex fragrance, but don't let that fool you – Herod definitely deserves its place on my list of sexy men's colognes.

Top notes: Cinnamon, Pepper

Heart Notes: Tobacco Leaf, Incense, Osmanthus, Labdanum

Base Notes: Vanilla, Iso E Super, Musk, Cedar, Cypriol Oil, Vetiver

11. Instant Crush – Mancera

As the name of this fragrance might suggest, Mancera's Instant Crush is the go-to fragrance for those who want to make an impact on the opposite sex.

Instant Crush has the potential to significantly increase your chances of a romantic encounter with the lady you've got your eye on. This scent is classed as ‘amber floral,' which means it provides a nice mixture of deep base notes and fresh top notes. More often than not – opposites attract one another. The same can be said for the contrasting notes in this fragrance.

Top notes: Saffron, Ginger, Mandarin, Bergamot

Heart Notes: Amberwood, Rose, Jasmine, Patchouli

Base Notes: Vanilla, Sandalwood, Musk, Oakmoss

12. Stronger With You – Emporio Armani

Emporio Armani's Stronger With You has to be the most unique fragrance on this list. Unlike most other options on the market, this cologne was designed as part of a pair. A male cologne and a female perfume – formulated to be worn by romantic partners.

The female version of this fragrance is called ‘Because Of You' and shares some of the properties of this sexy men's cologne. Like any good romantic partner, it isn't exactly the same as the male version; it does its own thing in its own way but perfectly complements its masculine counterpart when applied as a pair. As stated by the Emporio Armani brand, Stronger With You is:

“an olfactive embodiment of authentic modern-day love.”

Top notes: Cardamom, Pink Pepper, Violet Leaf, Mint

Heart Notes: Pineapple, Melon, Cinnamon, Sage, Lavender

Base Notes: Vanilla, Chestnut, Amberwood, Cedar, Guaiac Wood

13. 1 Million Parfum – Paco Rabanne

1 Million has made many of my lists in past articles about great men’s fragrances. I still rate Rabanne highly because this fragrance is the one you need if you want to exude pure wealth.

True to its name, 1 Million makes you smell like a million bucks. Its focus on luxurious mandarin, tobacco, and tonka bean make it a force to be reckoned with.

Top Notes: Mandarin, Cinnamon

Heart Notes: Tobacco, Myrrh

Base Notes: Patchouli, Tonka Bean

14. Le Male Le Parfum – Jean Paul Gaultier

Jean-Paul Gaultier made a big impact in the fashion world over the course of his extensive career. Le Male Le Parfum is one of this fashion house's more recent additions having been formulated and released in 2020. Taking on a similar profile to its Le Male counterparts – Le Male Le Parfum is the defining cologne for men who want to smell like men.

From my experience – most women love this fragrance. It isn't very polarizing, and I would consider it a safe bet for any man that wants to smell great without the risk involved in wearing complex scents. Le Male Le Parfum is another timeless addition to the already prevalent Le Male fragrance family.

Top Notes: Cardamom

Heart Notes: Lavender, Iris

Base Notes: Vanilla, Wood, Oriental

15. Coach for Men – Coach

As the first fragrance on my list to include Pear and Seude within its scent profile, this fragrance could be classed as aromatic with elements of fruit and wood. It has a lot of the same notes as my other top sexy men's colognes – however, the unique use of the Pear and Seude is what sets this fragrance apart from the rest.

Coach for Men is an ideal fragrance to wear during the daytime in those hot summer months.

Top Notes: Pear, Kumquat, Bergamot, Lavender, Grapefruit

Heart Notes: Cardamom, Geranium, Coriander

Base Notes: Ambergris, Suede, Amberwood, Haitian Vetiver

16. Bad Boy – Carolina Herrera

Okay, so before I get into the finer details of this scent, let me say this – I freaking love the design of this perfume bottle. I mean, what's cooler than a powerful lightning bolt striking the ground at 200,000mph?

Right – back to the technical stuff. Carolina Herrera's Bad Boy fragrance is one to look out for – there are lots of peppery and woody notes in this fragrance, so it's pretty much as masculine as you can get. However, there's also a hint of Bergamot laced in there to give off a slight citrus tone on top of the deep, woody foundation.

As I said earlier – contrasts in fragrance can work really well. It gives a fragrance depth and makes it stand out from the crowd. If you're the sort of guy who wants to get noticed – this might be the sexy men's cologne for you.

Top Notes: White Pepper, Black Pepper, Bergamot

Heart Notes: Sage, Cedar

Base Notes: Tonka Bean, Cacao, Amberwood

17. Spicebomb Infrared – Viktor & Rolf

As the most recent addition to the Spicebomb fragrance collection, Viktor & Rolf's Spicebomb Infrared (2021) adds sweet and spicy notes to the original Spicebomb formula. With the inclusion of Cinnamon and red fruits in its upper notes, Infrared delivers a more diverse and wearable scent that arguably improves the previous scent profiles within the Spicebomb family.

If you're the sort of man that wants to maintain elements of masculinity while experimenting with sweeter notes to add variety to your personal scent, then Spicebomb Infrared could be the one to go for.

Top Notes: Red Fruits, Pink Pepper, Saffron

Heart Notes: Cinnamon, Red Pepper

Base Notes: Tobacco, Benzoin

18. Dior Homme Intense 2011 – Dior

It's in the name with this one, gents – Intense. I've heard this perfume described by many men as a ‘performance beast' in that it lasts a long time, and you don't need to use that much of it in one application. That's a good thing – it means this cologne will last you a heck of a lot longer than some of the other fragrances on this list.

When it comes to the scent profile of this fragrance, we're looking at a cold-weather scent ideal for those fall/winter evenings. Got a big date coming up? Dior Homme Intense 2011 could be your best option if you want to take things a bit further than a friendly meal for two. With the inclusion of musk, cedar, and vetiver, this fragrance oozes masculinity.

Top Notes: Lavender

Heart Notes: Iris, Ambrette (Musk Mallow), Pear

Base Notes: Cedar, Vetiver

19. Eros Flame – Versace

Versace's variation of the classic Eros cologne stands on the shoulders of giants. Eros Flame is just as attractive as the original scent – however it goes in a completely different direction with far more contrasting fragrance notes.

The different mixtures of sweet and spicy, warm and fresh notes make for a truly complex scent profile that is sure to interest anyone close enough to catch a hint of it on your skin.

Versace markets this fragrance quite specifically – believing it is designed for a:

“strong, passionate, self-confident man who is deeply in touch with his emotions.”

Top Notes: Mandarin Orange, Black Pepper, Chinotto, Lemon, Rosemary

Heart Notes: Pepper, Geranium, Rose

Base Notes: Vanilla, Tonka Bean, Sandalwood, Texas Cedar, Patchouli, Oakmoss

20. Stronger With You Intensely – Georgio Armani

The final fragrance on my list of 20 sexy men’s colognes is yet another variation of an already excellent fragrance – Stronger With You Intensely by Georgio Armani. Similar to its original formula, Stronger With You Intensely compliments the female version of this fragrance.

What sets this apart from the original cologne is its longevity and strength upon application. It is a well-rounded fragrance that stays strong on the skin and projects throughout the scent’s life cycle.

I have heard some men refer to this as a more feminine version of the original – but that isn’t necessarily a bad thing. Chances are, if you enjoy sexy men’s colognes such as Spicebomb or Ultra Male, you’re also going to enjoy this fragrance.

Top Notes: Pink Pepper, Juniper, Violet

Heart Notes: Toffee, Cinnamon, Lavender, Sage

Base Notes: Vanilla, Tonka Bean, Amber, Suede

The Top 20 Sexy Men's Colognes (How To Smell Incredible In 2022)

There are hundreds, if not thousands, of sexy men’s colognes out there. Every man is different – which means that every man will suit a different style of fragrance. When all is said and done, it falls to you to do the research and trial some great fragrances to decide which is right for you.

However, I hope I have provided you with a good starting point with this list. Finding your signature scent isn’t easy – but once you’ve put in the hard work, you’ll start to see the benefits of wearing a sexy men’s cologne that works for you and your tastes in fragrance.

Good luck out there, gents!

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Heads-up, gentlemen! Did you know that relationships can quickly be made or broken, based on the number of texts you send at the start? That’s the reality of modern relationships: you really only get one chance at getting it right. No pressure, though. I’m here to help because I understand women and how they work!

When texting a woman for the first time, you’ll be appealing to her mental logic, her ability to reason, through which she’ll make the choice to either respond or hope you’ll go away. Your first opportunity at attraction will be through a mental portal. If you can appeal to her mentally, you’ll already have your foot in the door. Once your text relationship is established, you can continue to use texts to flirt and build momentum in between dates and keep her feeling special.

But what should you say? How often should you text her? What if she doesn’t respond; do you text her again? We all know the dreaded ‘blue tick’ status – your text’s been seen but your inbox is empty. Was it something you said? How do you appeal to someone you’ve just met, using only words?

Let’s Talk ‘Text Compatibility’

Texts have the ability to make a person feel pressured or inspired. When you and a woman are ‘text compatible’, this means that what you say in your texts, and how often you send them, appeal to her. This is key to closing the mental gap between both of you. If your mental bridge is strong, other aspects of your relationship will be more open to exploration.

In 2018, Psychologist Leora Trub from Pace University conducted a study on the texting habits of couples already in a ‘romantic’ relationship. [source] Her research revealed that partners with similar texting styles are more satisfied in their relationship. This shows that similar texting styles (content and frequency) leads to effective communication, and to issues being solved that much quicker.

In short, you might be compatible sexually or socially, but if you don’t complement each other’s headspace, you may be in for a bumpy ride.

Watch for the Telltale Signs

If you want to be text compatible with someone you need to pay close attention to them. Does she text back in a milli second, or does she take a few hours to reply? Don’t push her, text at her pace. The last thing you want is for your texts to become annoying or “too much”.

Another sign to watch out for is her level of engagement. Are her texts becoming shorter and shorter? Are her witty responses few and far between? If you notice that she seems rushed, or uninterested, back off. This is a clear indicator that you are texting her way too much.

Remember, that in the beginning of a relationship you should only be texting her enough to keep the momentum going and secure a face-to-face date. If there is a lag in your conversation, make up an excuse to leave and then hit her up with a creative text the next day, to start fresh and move the conversation towards an in-person meeting.

How Soon After Getting Her Number Should You Text Her?

If she’s personally given you her number, she’s likely anxiously waiting for your first text. Don’t let too much time go by being hesitant. Send her a simple text within the first few hours.

However, if she gave you her number while under the influence or at a party where she was mostly preoccupied, it’s better to wait until late morning the next day. Get your day started as you usually would, no matter how eager you may feel to text her; take some time to think of a good text to send. A safe and totally bulletproof text to send could be:

Hey, [name] – just sending you a quick text so that you have my number. Loved our chat last night. plussomething specific to your conversation such as “did you get up in time for your spin class this morning? What’s the name of that bagel place you mentioned? I’m in serious need”

At this point she’ll either respond or not. She might have already forgotten who you are, considering she’d had four scotch-on-the-rocks by the time she met you. On the other hand, she might be waiting for your text. The time it takes her to respond will depend on the impression your meeting left with her. If you see ‘blue ticks’ for longer than 24-hours, it’s likely she’s not overly eager to get things rolling.

Don’t fret. She might be super shy and not know how to respond, or even if she should respond. Give her another 48-hours to think about it, then drop her another line:

Sorry, is this [name’s] number? I sent a text a few days ago but can’t be sure it’s going to the right person. The person I’m looking for is tall, hilarious and has some killer dance moves.

If you’re faced with blue ticks again, it might be best to shrug it off and forget about it. If she’s seen two texts from you already, the third may lead to your being blocked! So, try twice then let it go.

She Responded – Now What?

Even if she responds, the deal is far from sealed. Now it’s time to put your best text forward. You don’t want to chase her away with mundane, long messages about your colleague’s dress-sense, or how your dog pooped in the living-room. Information like that is not necessarily going to make her feel special. Ideally, you want each text to be meaningful, and perhaps even a little cryptic!

Mystery is sexy. Remember, your mission is to flirt and build momentum in between dates, and make sure that you are firmly on her radar.

Playing Hard to Get or Not

While some women like men playing ‘hard to get’, you don’t want to be seen as the inconsiderate, taking-your-merry-time, making-you-want-me type. Think text compatibility and text at her pace. Remember, you might not be the only guy in the picture.

If you don’t show her some level of interest you may lose out to another guy. So, you’ll want her to know you’re thinking of her but aren’t necessarily chasing her. You can easily do this by sending her a few random texts that tie into previous conversations. Just don’t overdo it and make every text count.

Another must do is to always respond to confirmation texts as soon as you can.If you are ironing out the details for your date on Thursday, don’t leave her on read. Answer her questions about location, time, etc. or she might get the impression that you aren’t excited to see her.

Do Not Send Sexts Until You’re 100% Sure It’s What She Likes

And now, what not to do. In most cases, pictures of nudity or texts with sexual connotations at the start are a definite no-no. She may block you right there, or at least feel very uncomfortable with your approach. Be old-school for a little longer; rather consider romance and playful talk before introducing your sexual fantasies.

Many women are sick and tired of guys that come on too strong sexually. They want mental and emotional compatibility; and aren’t interested in a one-nighter that will just end up messing with their emotions. Be a gentleman – that’s your best bet at the start.

Let Her Set The Pace

Keep in mind that mental compatibility in any relationship is as important as emotional and sexual compatibility, perhaps even more so. Texting is an action of the mind; you’re using words as steps to reach the desired destination. If you follow the steps above at the onset of your new relationship, you should be off to a great start!

This post has been written by Claudia Cox, founder of Text Weapon. Visit her web-site to learn how to flirt over texting and get tips on how to use texting to improve your relationships.

Read other popular posts by Claudia:

7 Ways To Build Sexual Tension With Woman Through Text

Emoji Meaning – Ultimate Men’s Guide (Use Emojis Like A Pro!)

Talking To Women: 17 Conversation Tips For Men

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“Men are hard to shop for.”

I hear this time and time again. But I disagree.

We are actually very easy to please – you just need the right gift ideas!

Still confused? Worried that Christmas is coming up and you haven't found the perfect gift yet?

The good news is – you can still grab an awesome last-minute gift without resorting to novelty socks or ties.

So take a deep breath, read this guide then grab him the perfect gift and pretend you had it all planned out well in advance.

1. Stylish Pair Of Chelsea Boots

Few boots really drive home sleek and casual perfection the way Chelsea Boots do.

The boots were first used as riding boots, the elastic on the sides making them easy to slip on and off. They make amazing casual boots that really lend a much-needed elegance to any man's outfit. The Thursday Boots Cavalier is a must-have in a fall closet.

2. Essential Skincare Kit for Men

What could be better than the gift of perfect skin? VITAMAN's men's skincare products are made with natural Australian ingredients – no toxins, aluminum or chemicals.

Their Essential Skincare Kit gives him the core VITAMAN face-care essentials he needs this winter:

1. Natural Face Cleanser
2. Natural Face Scrub
3. Natural Face Moisturizer

He'll also get simple instructions on how to use this kit and VITAMAN's world-class support if he has any questions. Click here to grab this kit and get a free VITAMAN re-usable Face Mask and VITAMAN's no alcohol anti-bacterial hand wash thrown in for free!

Oh – and if you're looking for more skin and hair care recommendations, click here to read VITAMAN's Holiday Gift Guide.

3. An Elegant Leather Belt

A good belt can take your whole outfit from good to great.

Anson Belt & Buckle has taken the classic belt and improved it with their revolutionary exchangeable buckle system and micro-adjustable belt.

Instead of 5 holes, 1” apart like most traditional belts, Anson Belt offers 30+ options only a 1/4” apart, allowing you to always achieve the perfect fit.

4. Shaving Kit

Looking for a quality shaving kit that won't empty your pockets? This Harry's five-piece shaving set is all you need to fine-tune your grooming routine.

This set is all you need for a crisp, close shave.

5. An Affordable Luxury Watch

What man doesn't want a stylish, elegant timepiece? Monta Watches are great starter watches for those who want to go a little more high-end but still want to stay on a budget.

These watches are sleek and professional and come in several styles that cater to every whim and fancy. I'd definitely be happy to see this under the tree!

6. A Scent Trigger

Do you want to be more focused? More confident? Perform better?

Then you should definitely try out Mission Fragrances.

It’s not just about fragrances that smell good (and trust me, they do!) but leveraging the Science of Scent to get more out of life.

Learn how to boost mental clarity, sharpen concentration, and increase your confidence to become the man you know yourself to be!

7. The Perfect Signature Scent

Every man needs a signature scent. But the problem is – most men have no idea what theirs is. Here are a few of my favorites:

In the world of men's fragrances, Parfums de Marly is a relatively new kid on the block but they've already built up a reputation as an exquisite, niche fragrance house.

Known for their bold fragrances that leverage exotic fruits, florals, spices, and woods Parfums de Marly fragrances will surely make you smell and feel like royalty.

With over 30 colognes available, it won't be difficult finding that signature scent for you or that special someone.

8. Vlogging Camera Kit

Talent is one thing but everyone knows a good camera definitely helps.

The Canon Mirrorless camera is great for pros and amateurs alike.

Easy to use with a 15-45mm Lens, 4K Video, Built-in Wi-Fi, NFC and Bluetooth Technology – this is definitely a good starter camera.

A favorite for vloggers too!

9. Leather Wallet

Every man needs an amazing leather wallet. And to tell you the truth… not a lot of companies are up to Carl Friedrik's standard.

Beautifully made Italian leather wallets crafted to perfection will bring a smile to any man who receives one as a gift this holiday season.

You can pick different sizes, colors and types of wallets – I'm sure you'll find the perfect one for your friend, brother, father (or any man for that matter) and I'm sure they'll thank you for it!

10. Performance Jeans

I'm a prepper – which means I like to be prepared in all possible situations I or my family can get into.

Skinned knee at the park? My first-aid kit is ready.

Leaking faucet at home? Got my wrenches right here.

Blackout during a storm? No sweat- I have my trusty flashlight: heavy-duty, incandescent, works with easy to find batteries, this Maglite flashlight is a staple in our house – it's water-resistant and renowned for its quality, durability and reliability

11. Mini LED Flashlight

Goes without saying – if you like to be prepared then you should have one of these in your car, travel luggage, Dopp kit and bag.

You'll never know when you'll need it and it's small enough for kids to use too!

12. Bike Accessories

I'm no professional cyclist but I do enjoy rides on my bike every now and then. It helps to have great bike gear and accessories that are not just of great quality but also unique.

If you're looking for bike gear that's fun, cool and one of a kind – Dispatch Bike is the way to go!

13. Men's Makeup

Getting ready for that date but suddenly see a pimple popping up smack dab in the middle of your forehead? No sweat – Stryx is here to save the day.

Stryx engineers products made for men to give them perfect looking skin without having perfect skin so you can say bye to spots, redness and dark circles instantly.

14. Height Adjustable Standing Desk

Working from home has its perks but it definitely has its disadvantages too.

I found myself often distracted and even falling asleep on my workspace.

The standing desk literally changed the way I work – not only do studies show it to be healthier, it is also shown to help you keep better focus and reduce back pain.

15. Backpack

Whether you're traveling, hitting the gym, or heading to work – EZRI has a stylish, practical backpack for you.

All EZRI's backpacks are made of incredible high-end unique materials, making them ultra-lightweight while allowing them to maintain their shape even when empty, and to stand on their own.

16. Cowboy Boots

There are a number of men who have never ridden a horse, yet own and look GREAT in a pair of Western boots.

Admittedly, it can be tricky to pull it off but with the Chisos Cowboy Boots, it has unmatched comfort with an elegant finish.

These cowboy boots are downright incredible and comfortable.

17. Tactical MultiTool

Gerber Gear Truss Multitool

This multi-tool has saved me countless times when going on trips, especially when I used to ride my bike all over the country.

Small enough to fit in the compartment or bag but has everything you need in a pinch.

LEATHERMAN Wingman Multitool

Another great multi-tool to keep in the car or in your toolbox. Has everything you need in an emergency plus it's compact enough to keep anywhere.

If I can't think of a gift to give a friend – I usually end up getting this and I know it will be well received.

18. French Press Coffee Maker

Everyone knows I love a good cup of coffee in the morning.

Add some coconut sugar, freshly whipped cream (because nothing else compares!) and I'm all set for a good day.

This double insulated press keeps the coffee hot for longer and makes sure none of the grounds get to your cup.

A staple in the Centeno household.

19. Glasses

Do you know someone who loses their glasses all the time? Or maybe breaks them by accidentally sitting on them? If you do, or if this is you – then Clic Readers would make the perfect gift.

What makes CliC Eyewear unique is their design. Instead of your normal temples, these glasses go around your head, disconnecting at the bridge.

With this magnet and headband combination – they’re always around you when they are not in use. No more losing, misplacing or breaking those glasses ever again!

20. Portable Flashlight

I know I've listed several other flashlights here but with a house of 4 kids who like to the outdoors – somehow I just need several of these.

I keep these in our camping gear as well as keep one in each of the rooms.

Just in case we get a blackout from the nasty storm, everyone's set. Pro-dad tip, these are waterproof.

Making them super handy for sticky little fingers.

21. Journal

I've been journaling for more than 20 years, back to my military days and it's definitely one of the things I have never regretted doing.

Not only does it allow me to look back and remember all the important (and sometimes crazy) things I've done but it helps me remember all the amazing people I've met.

I've used it to set goals, figure out timelines and overall just help me map out what I wanted to do with my life.

This is one of the best gift ideas for men who already keep a journal or for someone who's looking to start. Lochby journals are stylish and sturdy – something you'll need for every day.

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You woke up and realized your one and only suit was RUINED. If you wear something else, what would your boss, your colleagues, the pretty waitress at your favorite café… all think of you?

Shameful, right? Of course not!

Suits may be a big deal in some cases – but they're not “do or die” if you want to be super stylish.

The truth is there are alternative options that give you an equally sharp appearance.

So here are 10 ways to look SHARP without a suit (whether there's no suit available or you just want to change things up).

Tip #1: Wear A Sports Jacket Or Blazer

It's one of the best things about being a man…

You've got two other similar jacket types to go for besides the suit! And people rarely pay attention to the minor differences.

First off is the sports jacket. When you get the right kind, it automatically makes you appear more masculine and sophisticated. But it's also more “relaxed” compared to a suit jacket.

It has great flexibility for most casual settings. And that's why I particularly LOVE the sports jacket and jeans combo!

And then there's the blazer. It has certain features that a sports jacket doesn't – like a contrasting color for the buttons (brass, silver, gold, etc.) and a distinctly smoother weave.

You should probably stick to its “niche” color of dark blue since it never seems to fail. And don't rule out wearing a blazer with jeans! It's worth trying too.

Tip #2: Leverage The Power Of Color

Considering you've got enough blues/whites for “base” clothing… try to have fun with color!

Because at some point, you want to get off your comfort zone and show people that you also look amazing in pink or yellow – or even in colored patterns.

So do explore colors for your shoes, shoelaces, neckties, and most definitely pocket squares.

It's cool how a short piece of fabric (which you could fold up in various ways before tucking into your breast pocket) can do wonders for a jacket.

Pocket squares are the perfect example of “small but terrible” – they drive a lot of attention to whoever has them on. So if you haven't already, learn how to wear a pocket square so you can start some interesting conversations in a room full of strangers!

Tip #3: Accessorize With Authority

You don't buy accessories (hats, jewelry, etc.) for the sake of bragging rights or one-upping others. It's to highlight individuality. The “you” in you.

That's why we always see Jack Nicholson wearing his signature sunglasses. He says they make him “Jack Nicholson” – as opposed to just being “a 60-year-old balding man” without them.

And I'll tell you what I think is the most powerful accessory for guys: a quality watch.

Tip #4: Focus On Fit

A car can't function without wheels. Humans can't live without oxygen. And stylish clothing can't exist without the right fit.

But what exactly do you have to consider when it comes to nailing the fit?

Two key components are:

1. That the item ensures enough comfort and freedom of movement.

2. It shows off your physique in the best light.

Both of those aren't always going to apply to an off-the-rack piece. Chances are you'll need something custom-adjusted or custom-built based on your body type.

So check who the skilled tailors are in your area. Make sure to know their names and befriend them. They will give the best services if you make that kind of effort. You'll end up getting well-fitted shirts and even well-fitted jeans or casual clothes.

Tip #5: Switch Up Your Shirt Style

When you've got the fit checked off – it's time to look into the ways you can “customize” your shirt even further.

One simple technique is to choose a pattern that reflects your vibe or personality (which can be influenced by the setting itself):

•  Solid-patterned: for business/social events; consider colors like light blue, lavender, gold or pink since they elevate the mood better

•  Striped: useful for conveying a stricter, more business-like vibe; the thinner the stripes are the more formal the shirt tends to be

•  Checked: the most casual pattern; great for weekends when you're giving off a relaxed vibe (but larger guys should avoid checked shirts since they exaggerate width)

And maybe you'll want to take things a step further. So why not ditch the necktie if it's not needed – and focus on getting a strong shirt collar? That requires knowing the ideal size and weight of the collar spread for your shirt. But it will definitely give you an edge over men who aren't as attentive to their “weak” or “unsteady” collars.

Tip #6: Bring In A Vest

Vests are excellent alternatives to a suit, especially when you've got a more muscular or athletic body.

Why? Because they don't have any fabric to cover the sleeves – so you wear a shirt under an odd vest and the double-layering builds up the chest, shoulders, and arms.

And if you're wondering if vests really have to fit close to your body, the answer is yes! It's a big part of how to wear a vest properly.

It's supposed to make you look like you could be a medieval horseman who uses it to keep warm at night. Or a knight who uses it as padding under his armor.

Those were the men for whom the vest was originally created for. And you can bet they were well-built!

Tip #7: Pick A Stylish Piece Of Outerwear

Now if you're going to be spending time outdoors, it makes sense to pick out a very stylish piece of outerwear.

That means choosing among different types of jackets and coats:

The number one factor here is the weather. If you're in the middle of winter, you'll surely be needing something like the Overcoat.

Not only does that jacket keep you warm. It shares the traits of sharp-looking casual clothes.

But let's say you live in LA  – and you're hanging out by the beach but not swimming or tanning.

That's when you'd want something like a field jacket (US soldiers wore a version of this to deal with the warmer climate during the Vietnam War). A fabric like green suede would work best on it.

Tip #8: Grab A Stylish Sweater

When the temperature is pleasantly cool, I'd go with a well-fitted sweater without a doubt.

The best part about a sweater is it covers up your shirt and you're not expected to take it off indoors. So if it looks fantastic on you – there's no need to “nail” the shirt underneath.

You want to select your sweater based on:

• Thickness (a cardigan feels different from a sweater blazer, for example)
• Pattern (simple solids are best for formal settings while stitched/woven in ones are for more relaxed or casual settings)
• Style (V-neck, turtleneck, shawl collar, etc.)

Check out this guide to choosing a men's sweater for more information.

Tip #9: Level-Up Your Footwear

It's a truth many guys tend to forget. People can make assumptions about you based on your shoes.

Therefore – don't underestimate the power of polished and quality footwear. Factors like the leather used, stitching, and even the price all come into play here.

You want to figure out which dress shoes and dress boots can level up what you normally wear. If you go to the office in work boots, upgrading to dress boots might benefit your professional image (as long as they're appropriate for the environment).

Tip #10: Go Monochrome

Ultimately – you want everything to come together in your outfit. Where no item “clashes” with the rest or spoils the entire thing.

In order to achieve that, try a monochromatic outfit with a low-contrast palette. You want people's eyes to “flow” up and down your profile without being distracted by specific details. And that requires you to:

• Avoid stark contrasts (especially from bright details or multiple visible patterns)
• Stay within the same color family (this streamlines your overall appearance)
• Add only one bright color to an ensemble of dark colors – putting the bright color on top (this will draw people's eyes to your face when they see you)

Bonus Tips

1. Build A Wardrobe You LOVE

This means “condensing” your wardrobe so it only contains clothes that make you feel great every time. They should lead to a set of go-to outfits that allow you to stand out. Self-discovery is the key here.

Find out what colors, patterns or layers you enjoy wearing that others don't – and practice wearing them with confidence.

2. Invest In A Stylish Bag

Step up your bag game and understand what to look for in a quality leather bag. It must be a bag that only gets better with age. The price might give some people a heart attack but if you can see it's good for your style – it'll make you look sharp for life. Yes, even when you have gray hair and dentures!

3. Master Your Grooming

If you can make small improvements in your grooming (whether it's a shorter hairstyle, a different beard style or an alternative hair product) you may just be surprised by how much positive attention you'll receive in the next few days.

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