I get so many DMs and comments asking for various paint colors that we used throughout our house.

So, I figured I’d put them all into one easy place for your reference and include images. You can also find links to each space below which sources everything else from these rooms. I love when you guys make suggestions for blog posts!

Keep them coming!

Pamper Room

One of the most asked about rooms in the house is what we call the “Pamper Room.” This is a bonus room included in our master bedroom suite that sit just off the closet and bathroom area. We wanted it to feel very feminine and bright. Wall color: Farrow and Ball Setting Plaster

Kitchen

We recently repainted our kitchen, added new hardware and light fixtures and it made such a huge difference for us. You can see the full before/after here. Cabinet paint color: Farrow and Ball Lichen // Wall paint color: Farrow and Ball Joa’s White 

Master Bathroom

The master bathroom was one of the rooms in our house that we did a little work to. You can see the before/after here. Wall color:​ Benjamin Moore White Dove

Living Room

What makes the living room feel really special to me is this tiny little trim on the walls. Our designer, Martha Mulholland, found a unique way to really make it pop by painting it a darker shade. Wall color: Living room walls: Benjamin Moore “White Dove” OC-17 // Raised trim detail on living room walls: Benjamin Moore “Inner Balance” 1522

Sunroom

Dining Room

We really wanted to lean into the drama of the dining room and give it a very Polo Bar feel from New York City. I love how it turned out using a deep green tone on the walls. Wall color: Benjamin Moore’s Century Terre Verte

Master Bedroom

Our “When In Doubt” White

The white we used everywhere else throughout the home is Benjamin Moore White Dove

Credits: Design by Martha Mulholland and Photographed by Laure Joliet

I do it every single year.

I get my notebook and sit down to make the grand list of New Year’s Resolutions. My list usually consists of things like “play more piano” or “travel to a new country” and “do the kitchen renovation.” Some of those things are meaningful and some I was actually able to accomplish in 2020. However, those are not the types of resolutions I am jotting down in my notebook as I head into 2021.

If I learned anything in 2020, it’s that I have very little to zero control over things that are outside of my control. That sounds silly to say, but what I mean is that I can only have control over my own happiness and my own family. I cannot control things like illness, airline schedules, shut downs, rainy days, beautiful days, other people’s opinion of me and my family or even the way my messages are received in this world. And when I cannot control many outside factors, it can be quite difficult to downright impossible to achieve goals, work on personal projects and meet the added pressure to “improve” thy self.

While I truly see how resolutions can feel very counterproductive during troubling times and during a very difficult year, I am choosing to continue with my annual tradition in creating them.

However, this year I’m doing things a bit differently.

Rather than sitting down to check off a list of accomplishments from the year prior, or setting some sort of goals that circulate around change or improvements to myself, I’m adding a bit of compassion and grace to my “resolutions.” There will be no pressure or list of goals to achieve. In fact, I’m very much letting myself off the hook from really having any goals in the next year.

My list, which you can find at the bottom of this email, is more of a “begin as you mean to go” list. They are things that I have already started to do and implement in my life over the last year. The way I see it, this list is fairly easy for me to continue to work on because I’ve already starting doing the “work” (doesn’t feel like work at all).

My List of Resolutions for 2021

Worry and stress less – Last year, I allowed things to really stress me out far more than I should have allowed. Sometimes there are things that are completely outside of your control. Stressing about them will not alter the outcome nor add any value to your life. I started watching the news less. I figure if there is something that I really, really “need” to know then someone will tell me about it.

Get my Health in Check – I have actually already begun to do this by getting my very first mammogram a few weeks ago (check, check!). I also saw my first Orthopedic specialist for a neck injury and got my hormones checked by a hormone specialist who put me on a variety of supplements. Often times I put off or avoid going to doctors, dentists and getting things checked in on unless something is “wrong.” My goal by the end of the year is to be up to date on all of my check-ups.

Be the Best Mom I can be for June <3

Find More Meaning in my Work – Thanks to every single one of you, my amazing and supportive readers and friends, we were able to offer contributions and support to those in need during 2020. With every purchase, click, like or comment that is made on my blog and social media channels, I either earn money through commissions plus it increases the value of my brand which allows me to make an income. As a result, this year we were able to give back more than ever before. Just after Covid-19 hit the US, we began increasing our charitable outreach by donating 50% of our proceeds to Baby2Baby for the first 3 months of the year. We also started a GoFundMe for my dear friend, Amanda Kloots, where you all helped raise funds to support her and her family. As the year went on, we expanded to help support different organizations and strengthened the amount of monthly donations we make to them. We also ran several giveaways through my social media channels to support giving back to those in need and shed light to small businesses. We also collaborated on an exclusive necklace with Retrouvai that donated 100% of the proceeds back to The Love Land Foundation. Let’s not forget 1212, the baby clothing brand that I am a Creative Director for and the incredibly generous donations we offer year-round. With each purchase you make, a donation is made back to Baby2Baby.

I am so proud of this work, because without adding this meaningful element, I simply do not know what my “WHY” would be. I also think it is so important to celebrate these amazing contributions because they would not be possible without your readership, loyalty, comments, purchases made through my blog and YOUR SUPPORT. I cannot thank you enough. As the New Year begins, I want to assure you all that we will continue to do our best work so that we can continue to support those in need.

I can’t even begin to tell you how many inquiries I get when I wear my favorite DemyLee cardigan.

Sadly, it’s completely sold out. But I have found so many super similar options across the web that I wanted to share because I know many of you are on the hunt for something similar.

Do you have any favorite cardigans you’ve found this season? Would love to check them out!

My dear June, What can I say about 2020?

I remember writing to you 7 months ago when I was feeling blue, yet also hopeful that this mess would end soon. So much has happened since then. We’ve lost friends. We have stayed indoors, panicked over how many paper towels to buy, missed vacations and longed to see family and friends who live in Texas. We have worried, stressed and learned. We’ve struggled, mentally and physically, as the price of this pandemic has taken its extreme toll on everyone.

As the world introduces a vaccine for Covid-19, I would be lying if I said I feel the end is in sight. Sadly, I believe the dark cloud of Covid-19 will continue to hover over the world for a little while longer. But, as the year comes to a close, I have been reflecting and trying to make sense of it all.

A lot of people say that 20/20 was the year for clear vision. Chogyam Trungpa Rinpoche, a famous Buddhist meditation master, said “We cannot change the way the world is, but by opening ourselves to the world as it is, we may find that gentleness, decency and bravery are available – not only to us, but to all human beings.” That is what this year was about for me.

There have been so many learning curves and challenges with 2020, but there has also been an incredible amount of growth. In the beginning of 2020 I resisted it all. I fought against the idea of sitting still, listening, practicing patience and learning time and time again to readjust goals, readjust plans and readjust my outlook on life. I hated sitting still and having to listen to the inner workings of my anxious mind going around and round through different scenarios, plans, fears and ideas. But the more I was literally forced to sit still, the better I got at it. And while a lot of these transformations continue to happen behind the scenes, I feel like a better person exiting this year than when I started it.

I simply would not have made it through 2020 in one piece if it weren’t for you and your incredible dad, always making me laugh along the way. The more we sat still, in our home together, the more I saw your smile, heard your laugh and saw your beautiful blue eyes light up at the simple things like your dad hiding behind a door or jumping on the bed. If I was having a bad day, your dad would pick up the slack. If he woke up feeling down, I would add pep in my step to cheer up the house. We all took turns, lifting each other up and while your dad and I had our back and forth struggles, there was one thing that was a constant.

Through the darkest days of 2020 you were always there, shining your bright light stronger than ever.

You were the literal glue that held us together this year. With your amazing positive energy, constant smiles and unconditional love, we made it through. And I realize that you are not even 2 years old at the time that this letter is being written, but it’s the truth.

You are my light, my bright Christmas star and I feel so incredibly lucky to be your mom.

I love you, Mom

From our family to yours, we wish you a very Merry Christmas.

What are your plans for New Year’s Eve this year?

I have to admit that I honestly don’t feel like doing anything but cuddling up with a big bottle of red wine, a bowl of popcorn and binge watching a new show.

This year was a lot!

But, I’m fighting against my inner pull to do absolutely nothing and I’m doing, well, absolutely nothing. But that doesn’t mean I won’t be pulling myself together even if it means I have zero plans for ringing in 2021.

Raise your hand if 2020 sucked. I imagine that everyone who is reading this post has their hand raised. Sadly, I do not think the clouds will part and all will go back to “normal” once the ball drops on New Year’s Eve. However, I do believe that we should all take time to dress up, put on make-up and celebrate the ending of this awful year and welcoming of the next.  Here are a few things you can do to brighten up your celebration at home this year.

Set The Mood

An easy way to brighten up your home and your spirits is with candles. The light and scent just makes me happy and feel good in the space I’ve been in for so long. There are certain scents I light around the holidays, which bring me back to the joys of this time of year. Scent is our strongest sense and I love associating it with a memory.

Invite a Little Normalcy

Add some pizzazz to your home and your holiday celebrations. Even if you can’t go out and party for New Years Eve, bring the party to you. There are so many affordable, fun and festive options. I’m pretty sure I’m going to need some party hats ASAP.

Treat Yourself

Every single one of you deserves to treat yourself after this year. Buy a little something special to throw on for the holidays. A slip skirt or a brand new pair of heels are sometimes all you need to bring a smile to your face.

Set it Apart

When we’ve been doing the same thing day in and day out, even switching up something a little makes things feel really special. Set up the table for a nice meal with your favorite wine. Dress up. Put on some sparkly earrings. Throw on some jazz music. Hang up twinkle lights. Chef it up in the kitchen. Any little thing you do to set this time apart will make such a significant difference.

Welcome in the New

While things may not magically change in the new year, there is something so great about a fresh start. Celebrate that! Make it a point to refresh and renew your energy however that may be for you.

Sending all my love your way as we navigate this fresh start together! I’ll be figuring it out right alongside you.

With my favorite girl in my favorite place.

Been in Lake Arrowhead for a few days now and it is a breath of fresh air.

Checking in and thinking of each and every one of you.

I know a lot of you are covered in snow & feel locked up indoors and I’m sorry. I’m sorry this year is happening. I’m sorry that you feel sad. I just want to say that “I’m sorry” in case you don’t have anyone in your life to say those words to you.

I went to the beach yesterday to let go of some anxiety and depression that I have been carrying around and I thought of you. I was counting my blessings of having sunshine and the outdoors to escape to, but I know many of you do not have this right now. It’s going to be a cold winter. I think that this will be the hardest stretch for us all yet.

Please do what you can to take care of yourself. Please know that we are SO close to this nightmare being over. Please know that you are not alone. We are in this together so let’s keep it together guys.

Sending you love and light to whatever corner of the world you are in.

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Polo Ralph Lauren

La Ligne

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New Balance

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Rag & Bone

I caved.

And let me tell you, it was so worth it. They’re pricey but I decided to bite the bullet and oh my goodness I’m in love with these. The fit is everything and they have the perfect amount of distressing.

Raise your hand if you’re ready to take a big fat nap straight into 2021.

*hand raised*

2020, the year at at home workouts.

Sadly, I don’t think this trend is going anywhere soon. Luckily, there is a plethora of at home workout regimes that can keep you feeling fit and that fun to do.

Working out this past year has been all about keeping my mental health game strong.

It’s truly been my outlet for blowing off steam, feeling connected to my mind and body and most importantly, it’s been the best natural treatment for fighting off depression.

I’m rounding up a list of my favorites from the year and workout plans that I swear by below along with equipment I have and love for any at home workouts.

First thing is first, my gear. It’s very important to have the correct work out gear at home to get your workout done. Otherwise, you will find any excuse to not work out and this will be your #1. Here are a few things I have tucked neatly in a basket for my at home workouts:

Bala Weights // AK! Jump Rope // Extra Thick Yoga Mat // Workout Sliders and Resistance Bands // Stability Ball // Magic Circle

Pilates by Amanda

I have been doing Pilates by Amanda 1-3 times a week for the past year and have 100% seen the biggest change in my body. I was so upset when stay at home orders went into place in Los Angeles, but her at home workouts are honestly just as good as the in person. // Sign up here

Amanda Kloots

Whether it’s her phone number workouts on IG or her jump rope motivational moves, I am the biggest fan of all things Amanda Kloots. Her positive energy is infectious and any time I’m looking to boost endorphins and get my body moving quickly, I’ll tune into one of her amazing workouts and get to sweating instantly. // Sign up here

Sweat App

This is workout app that I go back to time and time again. It’s a really great app for beginners who are looking to dip their sneakers in a manageable workout. It was the first thing I did post pregnancy. You don’t need any equipment! // Sign up here

Sculpt Society

Another one of my all time favorites is by Megan and called Sculpt Society. Her dance cardio and sculpting workouts always get me sweating quickly and I feel so great after a work out! I love how quick and easy you can jump into her workouts with little to no equipment needed. // Sign up here

Favorite Workout Clothes: Beyond Yoga Pants // Wunder Train High Rise Leggings // ON Sneakers // My favorite Nike Sports bra // IVL Tank

Last minute holiday shopping?

Aren’t we all! This year, as we all stay tied to home, I am loving gifts that people will actually use at this time. That’s why comfortable apparel and accessories has been my ultimate go-to.

Everlane rocks because they have all the basics, both elevated and affordable for its great quality. It’s such a good one stop shop for any last minute shopping for anyone {they have great men’s clothes too!}

I’ve rounded up a handful of my favorites, many of which I own and wear literally all the time. I want everything on this list and I’m sure any gift recipient of yours will too!

Everlane Mockneck Madness

This mockneck sweatshirt is kind of everything. I think it would be so cute in an athleisure look, but can totally be paired with some cool jeans too.

$58

Everlane Stuck on Slippers

You know I can't get enough house slippers, and these are a new favorite.

$50

Everlane You Can Count on Cashmere

I want this for every future flight forever and ever.

$175

Everlane Favorite Jacket of the Season

Truly one of my favorite pieces in my closet.

$78

Everlane Got the Pull Towards Wool

This is such a great transitional piece between seasons. It's simple, but still feels special.

$178

Everlane Deck the Neck

This is kind of brilliant and would just make such a great gift.

$50

Everlane Crew for You

Loving this simple crew {I have it on in the first image} and plan to wear it all season long.

$95

Everlane Buttoned Up

You know I'm so here for a button down moment. Love this take on a classic.

$68

Everlane Cashmere Everything

Let's face the facts, everything is better in cashmere.

$50

Everlane Go With The Throw

Another throw I am loving! Everlane has some seriously great throws and this is an good option if you're opting out of cashmere.

$135

Everlane A Closet Classic

Everyone needs a good pair of black skinny jeans. These are comfortable, affordable, and fit great.

$68

Everlane Living in Linen

Awesome light layering piece that will transition extremely well from spring to summer.

$64

Everlane A Tee but Make it a Sweater

Love a tee, love a sweater, adore a combination of the two.

$75

Everlane Phew! Another Crew

Well, well well, another sweater I wear non-stop. It actually goes with everything.

$50

Everlane What's Up Weekender

A great gift for seriously anyone.

$88

Thank you to Everlane for partnering on this post.