We worry so much about the things we don't have.

Men freak out over the size of their junk, the number on their check, and the cars they drive.

But gents, why do we do it?

We think it's for the ladies, but would you believe that they don't care as much as we think?

That's the topic for today's article gentlemen – 7 men's insecurities that women don't give a damn about.

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Click Here To Watch The Video – 7 Male INSECURITIES That Women DON'T Really Care About

1. Penis Size
2. Lots of Money
3. Full Head of Hair
4. Nice Cars
5. Height
6. Huge Muscles
7. A Chiseled Jawline

1. Your Penis Size

Let's address the elephant in the room. Among the most significant men's insecurities is the size of our penises. A small pecker is frequently used as an insult between us. Claiming to be a big boy can be seen as synonymous with masculinity (though it shouldn't be and isn't).

The evidence contradicts that, though – it doesn't matter to women. In fact, UCLA found that a solid 84% of women don't mind the size.

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Furthermore, a 2015 study out of the Public Library of Science discovered that many women only associate large penis sizes with one-night stands. They actually preferred more ‘average' sizes in long-term partners.

So, stop worrying!

2. Do You Need Riches?

This is a paramount concern for most guys. We always wonder how we can compete with the man in the manor, but it's not as big of a deal as it seems.

There are some studies that reinforce the importance of money. However, we gotta look at reality: women will prefer a man who makes less money and spends time with them.

Wealth isn't everything, but work/life balance is.

At a glance, you'd think they want the mansion man, but how hard do you think he works for that money? How often do you believe he spends time with his family?

The answer is “probably not a lot.” Those relationships often end in divorce regardless of wealth. At the end of the day, you don't need millions, but you need balance.

3. A Full Head Of Hair

We always worry about what's to become of our luscious locks. For lots of us, baldness is inevitable and we always see it as our downfall from youth.

What if I told you that baldness actually strengthens your social standing?

You don't need a full head of hair to get the woman of your dreams – in fact, baldness could help you.

That's right – a 2012 study out of the Journal of Social Psychology conducted three separate tests. In them, they found that bald men were seen to be more dominant than fully haired men.

The study even explained that balding men could embrace their bare scalps as tools of power.

4. You Need An Expensive Ride

Another major men's insecurity is material worth – specifically a car.

Fortunately, most ladies don't care about that either!

The Journal of Organizational Behavior and Human Decision Processes (what a mouthful) found that even though we justify the hotrods as being for women… we do it for ourselves!

Men get cars to show off to other men, whether we know it or not.

That's right – the study revealed that men experienced a significant boost in testosterone when behind the wheel of a stylish car. It makes us feel bigger, stronger, and badass.

Interestingly enough, we also do it to scare other guys too. Men are more threatened by each other through these displays than we care to admit. Ths harkens back to our primal instincts about scaring potential rivals.

So, what's the moral of this story? If you're getting that new corvette, stop pretending it's to pick up chicks.

5. Height Matters

Before you shorter guys get excited, yes, height does matter – but not as much as you think!

The Journal of Personality & Individual Differences observed a few relationships between men and women from the perspective of male height. They found that while height impacts first impressions, the impact dissipates the longer he is with the same partner.

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Females were found to care even less when her man demonstrated desirable traits such as resourcefulness.

In other words, your height doesn't define you!

6. You Need Muscles

Among the most frequent men's insecurities is whether or not you're a hunk. Having a good bod plays a role in attraction, but not in the way you'd think. At the end of the day, it's all about balance.

UCLA looked into this, and they found some interestingly nuanced preferences in women.

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For instance, women did rate muscular men as physically attractive – but also volatile and suitable only for brief sexual encounters.

Really brawny men were also rated less attractive than toned and slender men!

The results show that while it's still important to take care of your body, you don't have to be He-Man.

7. A Chiseled Jawline

There's a popular theory called the Universal Facial Attractiveness (UFA) hypothesis. It argues that a chiseled jawline is preferred as a universal ideal for men.

A 2013 examination from the Public Library of Science argues differently.

The testers collected outlines of 180 different human mandibles (90 were men, 90 were women). The results in preference blow the UFA out of the water.

What passes for an ideal jawline is highly subjective and depends on your cultural background.

Facial attractiveness is based more so on regionality and region-specific sexual selection. Essentially, your face shape might be more attractive to women of certain cultures than others.

In short, the so-called “chiseled” jawline is not universally loved. Don't fret!

Summary – Men's Insecurities

1. Penis Size
2. Lots of Money
3. Full Head of Hair
4. Nice Cars
5. Height
6. Huge Muscles
7. A Chiseled Jawline

As men, we spend too much time worrying about stuff that – at the end of the day – isn't even relevant. Yes, some factors matter, but not as much as we build them up in our heads.

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The Average American Spends $121,082.40 on Dating

In the old days, a date might involve a couple of dollars in milkshakes at the local diner. However, in 2019, it’s a lot different. New data suggests that over our lifetimes, the average American will spend thousands of dollars on dating — $121,082.40 to be exact. Yep. That’s six figures on attempts at love.

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A recent survey of 2,000 Americans produced by OnePoll and Simple.com uncovered some dating trends that you might not have been aware of, one of which is that courtship can be expensive.

As it turns out, the average American drops an unbelievable $121,082.40 on dating over the course of their lifetime. While this hard-to-believe statistic might seem a bit outrageous, it looks a little more manageable once it's broken down. The overall average works out to a cost of $168.17 a month, which could easily be just a single date a month — or two or three cheaper ones.

And, believe it or not, it isn’t single people who are spending all of their cash on date nights. Perhaps the most ironic statistic from the massive set of data pulled from the survey is that married people spend more on dating than singles. This totally unexpected reality shows that, contrary to what you might have heard, tying the knot doesn't entirely kill off the mood.

Of course, this probably isn’t a secret to everyone. A quarter of those polled said that they were actively avoiding the dating scene because they were strapped for cash to begin with, and a majority of Americans (62 percent) blamed their finances for a weak dating life.

Two-thirds of men raise their hand when it's time to square up the check, according to the findings, while 42 percent of women do the same. Possibly in an attempt to help balance the high cost of dating, 24 percent of respondents said they’re down with going Dutch and would offer to split the bill 50/50.

In a statement, Executive Steph Reiley of Simple.com noted that “Discussing who will pay the check can be one of the first times a date or new couple navigates a financial decision. As a relationship grows, integrating tools, like having a shared account or tools to plan expenses, can help couples continue those discussions to build a solid financial foundation.”

In the end, the spark is kept alive in ways that haven’t changed much and likely won’t anytime soon. When asked how to keep things interesting in an intimate relationship, the most popular answer was “enjoying dinner and drinks” followed by “date night at least once a week.” Physical affection, unsurprisingly, came in next, followed by “attending a concert or show.”

All of this adds up to say that, despite our love affair with touchscreens and technology, it’s still the simple things which set the mood. Spending time with the man or woman of your dreams, whether over a romantic dinner or in a sweaty crowd at a rock concert, is the surest route to long-term happiness. Just be prepared to spend a lot of money doing it.

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Golden Road Brewing Hosts Contest for NFL Chief Beer Officer Job

While some men and women might dream of becoming a fireman, a heavy equipment operator or a police officer, a lot of folks might also dream of a job involving as little legwork — and as much fun — as possible. A job like Golden Road Brewing’s Chief Beer Officer position.

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Golden Road Brewing is currently looking for the right man or women to fill  the new role of CBO — Chief Beer Officer — whose duties include watching NFL football, cheering on the Los Angeles Rams and chugging beer. 

In what is sure to be a wildly competitive application process, men from all corners of the United States will show the world that they have what it takes to be the world's first CBO. The requested qualifications? According to the job call on LinkedIn, the ideal Whose House?! Chief Beer Officer will be at least 21 years of age, have extensive tailgating experience and be able to call out at least five varieties of beer on the fly. The position is open to both men and women. 

Oh, and they have to love the Rams and Golden Road brew, of course.

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The chosen one will not only be the envy of red-blooded, sport-loving beer drinkers everywhere, but will also be called upon to promote the Whose House?! Blonde Ale while covering each and every Rams game on social media — right in the action, as it goes down on the gridiron. Not sure how this gig could get any better? Should you succeed in becoming the CBO, you'll also bring down a cool $150 in cash for each and every game on the season schedule.

If you want to toss your hat in the ring, it's pretty simple. Follow @GoldenRoadBrew and the @Rams on Instagram (making sure you profile is set to public) and share your best photo (or video) proving that no one can fulfill this role but you. If you tag @GoldenRoadBrew and @Rams in your post — and include the very necessary hashtags of #GoldenRoadCBO and #Contest — you're in. Crack a cold one, kick back and dream of what could possibly be.

Don't update your LinkedIN profile to CBO yet though, as it's expected there will be no shortage of thirsty candidates reaching for this golden gig. Brush up on your knowledge of the Los Angeles-based brewery's latest Blonde Ale (no better way to do this than by picking up a case and doing some taste testing) and keep an eye out on their social media feeds.

If you're lucky and end up being crowned CBO, try not to rub it in too much. Opportunities like this only come around once in a blue moon, and the idea of getting paid big bucks to watch professional football and be a beer ambassador is the wildest dream of nearly every man and woman on Earth.

Good luck! There are sure to be a lot of folks looking to land the CBO title.

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